Is my golf coach right to do this?
Question by some kid: Is my golf coach right to do this?
I play on a high school girls team, and my golf coach has not let me play in the last 5 matches, even though my score should decide where I play. There was a little misunderstanding at practice 2 weeks ago, when I left practice early, because I thought I was allowed to. Ever since then, I have been posting good scores in practice, but he won’t play me but doesnt say why. I talked to him about it and he said that I wasnt playing in the first 2 matches, but he continues to keep me from playing. He’s hurting the team to as I am one of the top golfers ont he team, and it was over a tiny problem? Is he just in doing this?
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Answer by Paul
Not knowing the entire story, I would say there is something about you attitude or practice habits that is keeping you out of matches. Ask other girls on the team what they think. If you believe it is because the coach just doesn’t like you, get a meeting with your parents, coach, and school principal.
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Just Hang In There, Do The Right Thing And You’ll Get Your Shot, If You Make Too Big A Deal Over It, Your Going To Hurt Your Game Mentally. Hang Tough And Go With The Flow. Good Luck To Ya.
This is a touchy subject. Have the other team members asked the coach why you aren’t playing? Most of the school coaches I had were pretty head strong and weren’t very receptive to constructive input. I suggest you ride it out. Make an effort to practice more than your other teammates.
Sounds like he’s being a dweeb, have a meeting with him and your principal. Make sure you have everything documented so your note just going on memory. Be sure to be honest and if your question was true, things will work out in your favor. If you have been a know it all player with a smart attitude, he may be justified in not putting you in, regardless of your score, it’s a team sport in school.
Make sure you keep your scorecards.
Have proof before you go to the principle
Bring your dad or mom, maybe a golfing friend.
I will piss the coach off! Be ready.
I would have a serious conversation with him. If he hasn’t given you a reason why he’s not playing you, that isn’t right. You might want to bring the parents in on this one. I don’t know if that is something you want to do, but if he isn’t conveying anything to you, he will have to respond to your parents.
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